Purple is the color of royalty. It is a blend if pink and blue. Marriage is more than learning to recognize and speak each other’s gender language. As long as the guys on Mars and the women on Venus learn to speak each other’s language it should all go well. But real Oneness is more than translating and communicating across a gender or personal divide.
Real Oneness requires a blending, a merger, an influence and an access. Allowing our individual self to be stirred into something bigger and sweeter. We are not abandoning or diminishing ourself. We are freely choosing to release our self and pour ourself into this new container called Us, We, Our. There is an unhealthy kind of giving and surrender than diminishes who we are. That kind of giving is not part of a love relationship. A love relationship calls us and releases us into our best and deepest self. There is a way to lose our life that actually helps us find it. That is the best kind of losing and the best kind of finding.
