Marriage

Emotional Jet Lag

Yesterday We are all prone to take trips in our head while we walk and work through the present day. Many of us are frequent flyers on these little jaunts into our past and our imagined future. The journey out of today is often a fast and easy ticket. It is not, however, a free ticket.…

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The Best Things 

You don’t have to pay attention to your marriage, to your heart  or to your Relational habits. And you don’t have to pay attention to the lights on your dashboard, to Stop signs or to Speed limits. And You can ignore feedback from your friends, Opportunities at work and Love from your family. There are…

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Making Purple

Purple is the color of royalty. It is a blend if pink and blue. Marriage is more than learning to recognize and speak each other’s gender language. As long as the guys on Mars and the women on Venus learn to speak each other’s language it should all go well. But real Oneness is more…

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Fresh

Some things are just better when they are fresh: bread, coffee and air. Some things are better when they stay updated and current; technology, haircuts, and newspapers. Our Life Together in marriage is also better when it is fresh and current. The truth is we don’t have to do anything to make bread stale, technology…

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Socks

This morning while getting dressed for work I ran into a delay when I got to my Sock Drawer. It should have been a grab and go exercise, one pair of dark socks to match my dark pants, grab the socks, grab some coffee, pat the dog, kiss my children and fly out the door…

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